Saying Hi To Old Teachers
January 31, 2006
Mr. Van White was my eighth grade English teacher. He was also
Academic Pentathlon and spelling bee adviser, had a white beard, and
drove a red Jeep. A couple years ago, I saw him for the first
time in...well, since 8th grade. Nineteen years.
Early last year, I stopped by Walker Junior High to say hi to Alan
Chen, see how he was doing since transferring over from teaching at our
old high school, Kennedy, to our old junior high school just across the
street. Walking across campus from the entrance by the parking
lot to what used to be Mr. Bass'(?) old room, I was reading the signs
by each door listing the teacher's name. And damned if I didn't
recognize one: Next to room 3, it said "Mr. White". Mr.
White! Still teaching at Walker! I peeked in and saw the
same white beard, maybe a bit thicker and a bit whiter with the passing
of eighteen years, a little bit more flesh to him, but recognizable all
the same. Meant to say hello, but by the I came back after
talking with Alan, he was gone. Mentioned it to Miss Whitsett
after walking across the street to Kennedy, and she said she'd heard
that might be his last year. Resolved to try to stop by and say
hello before June, but never got another chance.
So this past Christmas break, I figured I'd check one more time, see if
he stuck around for one more year. And sure enough, he did.
Would he remember me? Psh, after eighteen years and some three
thousand students, it'd be reasonable to expect not. And I was
what, twelve years old then?
"Mr. White?" as I enter.
"Yes?" he looks up from his desk.
"Yong Joo, from..."
You know, I don't think I even got the "from" out before his face broke
out in recognition and he was up grinning and shaking my hand.
That quick. How much can you really remember after 18 years and
3000 kids?
He remembers me and my brother, "the Joo boys". And he remembers that our mom doesn't drive on freeways.
He remembers Karen Holcombe, queen of History Day.
He remembers Eric Kim, how when he and his dad came by for Open House,
Mr. White tried to tell his dad what a great kid he was, how he was
doing well, and the whole time, Eric just stood there with his head
down, like it was daggers he was offering and not praise, what can you
say to Asian culture where success is expected and the norm is
considered failure?
18 years, and these things just bubble up without any deep
digging. I threw out other names of people I still keep in touch
with, and he didn't remember all of them, but I'd forgotten that half
of us hadn't been in his class, had instead been in Core with
Moffatt/Aborne.
36 years teaching, and the man's retiring after this year, still sharp
as a tack, eyes bright, and after spending ten minutes with him, I
couldn't tell the difference any more between the man I was looking at
and the one in my memory. They were the same.
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